Sorry to hear about your tough year! Glad you are doing some things for yourself and trying to focus on the future.
Good luck completing your blackbelt, that is a huge accomplishment!
MMO
it's been about a year now that i've posted on this site.
so i thought i would catch you all up.
my life has been a rollercoaster the past year.
Sorry to hear about your tough year! Glad you are doing some things for yourself and trying to focus on the future.
Good luck completing your blackbelt, that is a huge accomplishment!
MMO
in my spiritual journey, which includes trying to decide if i still believe in god anymore or not i am beginning to question if god listened to my prayers or even answered them.
i think i had a track record of praying more when i needed something.
terrible i know.
Nope.
MMO
well i decided to buy a powerball ticket again.. so wish me luck and share in the weath.
so easy its sick!!.
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Good luck!! Don't forget all us little people when you win big ha ha!
MMO
how many of you initally checked out this site for completely innocent reasons?
just stumbed across it and couldnt' stop reading, or to see what was being read with the intent of setting us or someone else in your life straight?
then b/c of what you read you could no longer buy into the whole jw fraud and left the org or are in the process of leaving?
I agree with your comments milligal, it's amazing how long it can control you even long after you leave. I also had the "mindmelt" as you refer to it.
MMO
i am saddened and angry to observe the pitiful situation some of my jw single female friends are in.
they are over 40 and have little work record, hardly any money and in some instances compromised health issues.
i am angry because these women were waiting for armageddon to come and save them.
I'm with you Longhairgal!! What a horrible sitation to be in. I feel for these misguided women!
MMO
how many of you initally checked out this site for completely innocent reasons?
just stumbed across it and couldnt' stop reading, or to see what was being read with the intent of setting us or someone else in your life straight?
then b/c of what you read you could no longer buy into the whole jw fraud and left the org or are in the process of leaving?
I had already left when I started reading this site, someone had sent me the link. I also refer as many people as I can to this site!
MMO
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so its june 11th, sorta summer, if it stops raining here.... what are you doing to enjoy yourself for the next few months?
cheers!
Going on a sunny vacay with friends in a couple of weeks and then down to business for me. I just started my new company so I will be working like crazy to get that going so I can afford more vacations! I will also be happy if it stops raining here. It's been like what, 4 weeks now? Tired of it.
MMO
when i was active, i was always (usually) proud to talk about being a jw, our faith, reasons for our stupid beliefs on birthdays, x-mas, etc.
now with everything i'm going through, given how much of an impact this is to my life, i want to talk to others about it, like coworkers, and other friends.
but thinking about how i would explain how it's a mind-controlling cult, i feel stupid for falling for it.
I don't tell anyone except for a select few people that are very close to me and I know they would never judge me. I don't discuss it though. It's embarrassing and I always think people will think less of me, or that I will lose some of my credibility with them if they find out.
MMO
you don't need to exaggerate the foibles of jws to get the point across that they are not "the truth".
can you state some facts that show that jehovah's witnesses are not "normal' and that their religion is weird and simply abnormal?.
Where do I begin?? Well the fact that they shun those that leave the org. is one of them. Also, that those that are not JW's are refered to as "worldly". That always made me feel weird.
MMO
how many of you initally checked out this site for completely innocent reasons?
just stumbed across it and couldnt' stop reading, or to see what was being read with the intent of setting us or someone else in your life straight?
then b/c of what you read you could no longer buy into the whole jw fraud and left the org or are in the process of leaving?
How many of you initally checked out this site for completely innocent reasons? Just stumbed across it and couldnt' stop reading, or to see what was being read with the intent of setting us or someone else in your life straight? Then b/c of what you read you could no longer buy into the whole JW fraud and left the org or are in the process of leaving?
Your experiences please! Anyone?
MMO